You are here now.
Enjoy what you have. Prepare for the future. How often have we heard someone say that? Sometimes this seems like it can’t be done, right?
Or we worry that it can’t be done right. It’s all so damn confusing.
The interesting thing about the future is that it is formed from today. I have found that playing with this idea has given me insight.
When this picture was taken I was sitting on a rock looking out at this magnificent view. I had just hiked for 1.5 hrs to get here.
At this point, my destination wasn’t even in view. Baxter Peak was somewhere up there to the right. For the moment it was blocked by a stand of trees.
The trek had just begun. I still had hours of climbing ahead of me.
I had done my homework. My hiking boots sat on the ground beside me as I cooled my feet. I could feel the sweat on my back…I was warmed up and ready for the next leg of the hike. This path was almost straight up, climbing over the huge boulders that comprise the Cathedral trail on Mt. Katahdin, the northernmost mountain on the Appalachian Trail in Maine, USA.
I knew the path – I had climbed the Cathedral before. I had trained for this.
I had a map. My way was clear. The mountain beckoned!
I found myself feeling very grateful for the man sitting beside me. My husband, Mark. Without him, I would not be here. He is my rock on this climb.
Mark is my adventure buddy, my hiking, cycling, kayaking, and resistance training partner, and my 2nd husband.
Before we met in 2005, I did most of my adventuring alone. On that particular today, I once again choose him and he chooses me.
I am pleased because it is always today. It is my choice to have Mark in my life for every today.
I remember this moment this picture captures very well – the way the wind whispered through the trees…the fresh evergreen air…the exceptional brilliant blue-green of Chimney Pond…the small chipmunk that sat on a rock behind me begging for peanuts…and the camaraderie of the other hikers who were about to take this epic journey along with Mark and I.
These people would be in my life for a short time, not a long time. I may not remember each of their faces and I did not catch many of their names, but I value every step with every one of them.
People come into your life for a season and a reason. The season may be long or it may be short. Some seasons must end sooner than later and you must move on.
The reason may be clear or it may be obscure. Either way, you must search your heart and decide what reason you give it.
Whether it is a reason to travel with the one who chooses to be with you today for as long as feels natural to you both or to use your discomfort as an excuse to prolong or pre-empt the experience…this is your choice, as well.
You are wise to be considering your choices before acting.
If someone is truly holding you back…if they are discouraging you from living your best life…it may be time to move on. I never would have found Mark, my adventure buddy on the road of life if I had chosen to remain stuck in my discomfort, resigned to adventuring alone.
However, keep in mind that the present is where you get to enjoy today. Consider the gift these people may be giving you by inviting you to enjoy not just the destination, but the journey as well.
Your mountain awaits…and today is a beautiful day.