Your Own Dam* Tiara!

Imagine a woman going it alone…living life without support.

She lives each day without having someone who is brave enough to offer her the simple, uncomplicated truth.

Imagine life without a peaceful spirit warrior guide – that person who is willing to go deep and ask the uncomfortable questions.  The person who encourages that woman to grow strong, determined, and fierce.

I have made a promise to myself to be the best me I can be every day that I wake up on this side of the grass.  I have committed my allegiance to my private spirit warrior guide.  I have pledged to be fierce, relentless and committed to excellence.

How satisfied are you in the following magnificent 7 areas of your life?

1. Physical

Fitness & Nutrition
Health & Wellness
Self-Care Planning

2. Personal Development

Creativity & Artistry
Life Goals

3. Career

Professional Development
Work Ethics & Standards
Career Planning

4. Financial

Money Management
Financial planning

5. Spiritual

Meaning & Purpose

6. Family Relationships

Close & Extended Family
Non-genetic Family

7. Social Relationships

Service Groups
Community/Volunteer Service

We live our lives as a whole person – so much more than the sum of all the parts.  Without all of these aspects of life flowing with a feeling of abundance, there is no way that we can live our best, most fearless life.

My own Tiara…

This tiara cost me about 2 bucks, but what it represents is priceless to me.  It sits on the top of my computer screens in the space where I write.  It symbolizes my belief in myself and my pledge to be fierce, fearless, relentless, and resourceful.  It is an integral part of my personal Self-Care Plan.  It is my choice to care for my wellbeing in every way possible.

Energy = Expectations

The energy with which we show up in the world is based on our belief about who we are.  What we believe about ourselves, we expect to encounter.

Are you fierce?

What does your voice sound like?  Is it hesitant, or confident?

What is your body language conveying? Do you walk with the sure-footedness of an athlete?

What kind of spirit leads when you enter a room?

Woman, are you fierce?

Perhaps it’s time to find your fierce?  To rock your wise?

I believe that every woman should have her own Tiara!  Think of it as a symbol of your decision to honor the peaceful spirit warrior within.

If you have never won one, or been given one…most especially then…

Stop waiting for someone to give you one.

Don’t apologize for wanting one.

Don’t back down until you get one.

Don’t surrender what should never be surrendered!  In this case, I mean your health!

Walk!  Run!  Swim!  Hike!  Bike!  Dance!  Dive into the deep end!

Earn a medal or two, or three!  Be the primary player in your own life!

Give yourself permission – Buy your own damn tiara!


Published by Paula D. Tozer

I am a writer, poet and singer/songwriter. I am a Toastmaster, motivational speaker, personal creativity coach, and workshop leader. My most sincere wish is to share my words with others, and that we both benefit from the exchange.

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